Today was not a good day at all. Well it started yesterday when my best friend and I got into this huge fight well argument if I must say so. I will rather not say what is was about but it put our friendship to the test. We have been friends for officially two years now. We have known each for a short time but have come to love one another as if we have known each other for a lifetime. It is known that friends will not always see eye to eye and they will bump heads because no one shares the same brain so they might disagree a lot. Well the meaning of my story is that I really love my best friend and I am glad I met her and wouldn’t change it for the world. We may have fought for the last two days and it seemed like we were not going to be friends anymore because the situation kept getting worse the more we argued.
The argument started because of some she did and I really let it get to me bad, which I don’t know if I shouldn’t have but it seemed so wrong at the time and still do. After constant messages of arguing back and forth and the situation was not getting any better. I was on the edge of walking away, but in my heart I didn’t want to because I knew I was just talking out of anger, but I didn’t know what else to do. She is a really sweet girl and knows I cannot really hold grudges against her, especially if I get a bear or some. So when I got out of class the first the first it was a bear in my room with a card apologizing. It was heartfelt but I was not going to cave in that easy because she had already told me it was some waiting for me. The fight still went on. Then finally, I go and come back from my last class and there again is another bear, this time with a post it that she written on. It was really sweet and it broke me down. From there she took me to get some to eat and we chilled and watched TV with my roommate. We have been through some hard times and this will not be the last but I know every time we have a fight, we have to be strong and fight for one another because life is too short to not have the ones you love in your life.
I can totally relate to this post. Me and my best friend went through some rough times a few times. One time it was work related ad we were just downright cruel to each other and were just at each others throats! The next time was over something so stupid and we both had bad influences in our lives pushing us apart. What it finally came down to was that we both were hard headed and didnt want to be the first on to cave in.After not speaking for months it was a little akward for the first little while but we are best friends now and she understands me best.
ReplyDeleteWe must remember that hurting people hurt others, often with words. Just recently, I have re-entered two friends' lives after sustained periods without communication. As human beings, we are often more disappointed by our expectations of others than by their actual behavior. To be open to love and reconciliation makes us stronger. Of course, doing so is difficult as it requires humility.
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Bestfriends fight all the time thats what they are for basically but arguing and fighting only make you guys friendship stronger. My bestie and I never miss a day without arguing and it be over petty things but I love her to death. Be grateful you have such a great and wonderful bestie
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